next, i want there

whisper words of wisdom; (clipped to polyvore.com)

I loved you forever; (clipped to polyvore.com)

sekeping pelajaran :)

inii iseng aja siiih . cuma pengen bagibagi referns iaja hehehe ..
mungkin aja bisa membangkitkan rasa empati kita sebagai manusia :)..
atau bagi anda yang baru saja meraskan perasaan ini, ada baiknya beberapa paragraf ini bisa menjadi bacaan yang berguna .. hehehe amiin . :p

1. buat yang masih SINGLE
   hey guys,. cinta itu ibarat kupu-kupu . makin kamu mengejar makin ia menghindar.
coba deh biarin cinta itu terbang dengan sendirinya, ia akan menghampirimu saat kamu tak menduganya.
cinta bisa membahagiakanmu tapi ga jarang juga kan bikin hati kita ancur . jadiii,, cinta itu hanya istimewa bila kamu berikan pada seseorang yang layak menerima. so tenang tenang ajadeh , ga usah keburuburu . pilihlah orang yang benarbenar menjadi orang pilihan .. buat dia merasa benar benar terpilih .. hhaha ga juga sih menurutkuu . ya emang kudu gitu kan . ;)



2.buat yang ragu-ragu dengan PERNIKAHAN
  aciiiiiik ngomongin nikah . hhaha, takut nikah ? iya sih , akuu juga . xD
tapi tau ga sih, nikah itu puncak dari segala ibadah  lhooh!
nah cinta itu bukannya perkara menjadi "orang sempurna" nya seseorang.justru perkara menemukan seseorang yang bisa membantumu menjadikan kamu menjadi sesempurnanyaa ..
soo, ngapain sih takut nikah.. ga ada salahnya juga lho kalo kita nikah muda . hehehe :D



3.  buat yang SUDAH MENIKAH
   kalau cinta jangan katakan "ini salahmu!" tapi "maafkan aku ya?"
bukan "kamu dimana !" melainkan "Aku disini, mengapa?"
tidak "Kok bisa sih kau begitu!" tapi "iya, aku ngertii.."
dan juga tidak "coba seandainya kau.." akan tetapi "terimakasih ya, kamu begituu.. "

nyenenengin kan dengernyaa . :)



4. buat yang PATAH HATI
  pernah patah hatii ? sakit kan ? banget laaah , nyesek tauk !! ..
pembaca yang terhormat, sakit patah hati bertahan selama kamu menginginkanya dan selama itu pula akan mengiris luka sedalam kamu membiarkannya. tantangannya bukanlah bagaimana bisa mengatasi , melainkan apa yang bisa diambil sebagai pelajaran dan hikmahnyaa ..
dont be sad dooong . lets move on!! *HAP



5. buat yang belum pernah jatuh cinta
   kasian deh kamuu.. hehehe .. *ngaciiir
bagaimana sih kalu jatuh cinta: mau jatuh jatuhlah tapi jangan sampai terjerumus,
tetaplah konsisten tapi jangan terlalu 'ngotot' , berbagilah dan jangan sekalikali tidak fair,
berpengertianlah dan cobalah untuk tidak menuntut, siapsiaplah untuk terluka dan menderita ..
tapii inget, jangan kamu simpan semua rasa sakitmu ituu. bikin setrees tauk.
ogah kan jadi orang setres :)



6. buat yang ingin menguasaii
  pernak kah hatimu kesobek sobek kayak kertas yang dicuilin jadi kecil kecil ? *lebay
orang yang kamu cintai itu berbahagiia dengan orang lain, dan itu bukan kamu !
tapi bakal lebih sakit lagi lhooh , kalo akhirnya kamu mengetahui yang kamu cintai ternyata tidak pernah bahagia sama kamu .
jadi bener kata pepatah ini "aku bahagia kalo kamu bahagia" ..hiks nyeseeek banget :(



7. buat yang takut mengakui
  gengsi ? takut ? .. duh uda ga jamin lagiii kaleee -__-
cinta menyakitkan bila kamu memutuskan untuk putus hubungan dengan seseorang, 
dan bisa lebih sakit lagi bila seseorang memutuskan untuk putus hubungan dengan kamu . *aduuh gw dputusiiiin .. :''(
tapi cinta paling menyakitkan bila orang yang kamu cintai sama sekali tidak mengetahui perasaanmu (terhadapnya).!!
makaaaan tuh gengsii !! :p



8. buat yang bertahan mencintai seseorang yang sudah PERGI
    hal menyedihkan dalam hidup adalah bila kamu bertemu seseorang.lalu jatuh cinta, hanya kemudian pda akhirnya menyadari bahwa dia bukanlah jodohmuu dan kamu telah menyia-nyiakannya bertahun-tahun untuk seseorang yang tidak layak. 20 tahun dari sekarang pun juga tidak akan layak. biarkan dia pergii ...lupakan!!
idiiihh gw takuut ! . gimana kita bisa tau orang itu layak ato engga kaann .. ngeeekk -__-
nah ini diaa saatnya kita jadi orang yang selektif .. ^^



9. buat yang PLAYBOY atau PLAYGIRL
   jangan katakan "Aku cinta kamu" bila kamu tidak benar benar peduli. jangan bicarakan soal perasaan bila itu tidak benarbenar ada. jagan kamu sentuh hidup seseorang bila kamu berniatt mematahkan hati.
jangan menatap kedalam mata bila apa yang kamu kerjakan cuma berbohong.
hal terkejam yang bisa dilakukan ialah membuat seseoarng jatuh cinta, padahal kamu tidak berniat sama sekali untuk menerimanya saat dia terjatuh ..






sekian, terimakasih buat yang uda nyempetin baca .. :) :) :)

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too...` I thought to my self, and I cried.

NINA RICCI PARIS FASHION ! . aw..